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2010年8月10日星期二

积极的人生哲学

Regina Brett是美国俄亥俄州最大报THE PLAIN DEALER的专栏作家,在45岁时为了庆祝年华渐长,给自己的人生经历做了注解:The 45 lessons life taught me,结果成为她平生最受欢迎的一篇文章,到2006年快50岁时,她又做了更新,以下是删节后的33节课:

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人生给我上的33节课

作者: Regina Brett

01、人生是不公平 但还是好得很。- Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

02、如有迟疑,就只迈前一小步。- When in doubt, just take the next small step.

03、人生苦短,短到来不及浪费时间去恨任何人。
- Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

04、你没必要每次吵架都要赢,试着接受彼此有歧见。
- You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

05、和你的过去和解,它就不会搞砸你的现在了。
- Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

06、不要拿自己的人生和别人比较。你根本不知道别人的生活是怎样过。
- Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

07、如果一段亲密关系要偷偷摸摸,你就不应该涉入
- If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

08、深吸一口气,会平静你的心。- Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

09、把无用的、丑陋的、令人不高兴的东西通通扔掉 。
- Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

09、凡摧毁不了你的,必定会使你更坚强 。
- Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

11、再次拥有童年的快乐永远不嫌晚,但是二度童趣只能靠自己,不能靠别人。
- It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

12、点上蜡烛,用最好的被单,穿上最美的睡衣,不要等到特殊场合才用。今天就是好日子!
- Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

13、做好充分的准备,然后就顺其自然。- Overprepare, then go with the flow.

14、现在就摆脱传统,不要等到老了才穿紫色的衣服。
- Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

15、遇到不幸,可以问自己这样一句话:“五年以后,这还碍事吗?”
- Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"

16、原谅每一个人每一件事。- Forgive everyone everything.

17、别人怎么看你,不干你的事。
- What other people think of you is none of your business.

18、时间能愈合几乎任何伤口,但要给“时间”足够的时间。
- Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

19、相信奇迹会出现。- Believe in miracles

20、除了你,沒有人能主宰你的快乐。
- No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

21、不要总是回顾人生。现在就去展现,并尽量发挥。
- Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

22、逐渐变老其实战胜了另一选项 - 英年早逝。
- Growing old beats the alternative - dying young.

23、每一天都出门,奇迹在四处等着呢 。
- Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

24、如果大家把各人的问题都堆在一起,看完了别人的困境,我们会抢回来自己的。
- If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

25、忌妒是浪费时间。你已经拥有你所需要的一切。
- Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

26、最好的尚在后头。- The best is yet to come.

27、不管你感觉如何,起床、盛装、好好展现 。
- No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

28、学会让步 。- Yield.

29、无论情况多好或多坏,它都會会变的
However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

30、人生苦短,又何必长悲戚。汲汲于生,或汲汲于死。
- Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.

31、当涉及追求你人生所热爱的事物,永远不要拒绝它!
- When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

32、如果你不要求,你就得不着。- If you don't ask, you don't get.

33、生命并没有系上蝴蝶结,但它仍然是一份礼物。
- Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

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Regina Brett这33则人生哲学积极而洒脱,而且涵盖生活的各个层面,总有几则能打动你的心!

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